Need some honest advice

[steve_7]

My wife left in October after communication broke down. She now has a flat, sharing time with our daughter. After much bad blood, admitting an OM was involved, and after a 180 we started getting close over Xmas. It was very brief and now she says she can't deal with me again, that I emotionally a used her. We are no longer in communication and I'm back at square one. Should I cut my losses and run, accept a divorce or keep fighting?

[Cadet]

Welcome to the board

Get out and GAL.

DETACH.

Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.

Have NO EXPECTATIONS.

Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.

You are on moderation right now on the forum.
SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.

Your W is giving you a GIFT.
THE GIFT OF TIME.

USE it wisely.

Knowledge is Power - Sir Francis Bacon

[steve_7]

GAL? I am trying to just arrange access with my daughter right now. Haven't mention the subject of me and my 'wife' as a couple as every time I do it just seems to antagonise and push her further away. BUT while I have zero expectations, is it way too late to ever consider a reconsitilation? She's told me eventuly she wants a divorce and is actively trying to meet someone else to move on. But I still have feelings and to me atleast it feels like unfinished business.

[Cadet]

GAL?

= Get A Life

BUT while I have zero expectations, is it way too late to ever consider a reconsitilation?

It is only too late when YOU decide it is.

What she is saying sounds like script to me!

Let go and whatever is meant to be will happen.