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Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: T-Mom] #2519921
12/23/14 12:50 PM
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Sound like he may have the winter blues.

Has that ever been investigated?

Vanilla


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: Vanilla] #2519937
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He has many issues. Winter is never a good time of year for him.


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years
Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: T-Mom] #2519940
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Do you feel down in winter too? It's so sad when you see negative patterns and there is nothing that can be done about the unless they want it.


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015
Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: u-turn] #2519965
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I rarely feel down. I'm a pretty upbeat person, so what I usually feel with stress is UP...lol... The relationship with my husband (or lack thereof) is really the only negative for me... and it has been that way for years.


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years
Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: T-Mom] #2519966
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u-turn,
I can't respond to your thread that we have also been communicating on... no option to respond...???


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years
Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: T-Mom] #2519969
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It's great to be that upbeat person - even if it's fake sometimes - I have to fake it sometimes. Keep that UP.

You may be looking at my old locked thread (they get locked after 100 posts). I made a new one yesterday - thanks for looking smile


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015
Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: u-turn] #2519988
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Just saw this thread...

This is the best info that I have read, behind the theory of LRT...


http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=42377#Post42377

Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: Mach1] #2520091
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Thank you, Mach! I have read that, and I am following through with it. I have just found out that my H has not wasted any time in gathering up some OW phone numbers. This is a tough one for me. He has a few that he is in contact with on a regular basis. I feel a freak out coming on... but I will try my hardest to avoid it.


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years
Re: LOSING MY MIND and needing LRT help!!!! [Re: T-Mom] #2520095
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One simple mantra for me....

It isn't what happens to me in my life, it is how I choose to respond to it, that matters the most.....

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So, I know I shouldn't have, but I did.... checked facebook and found one of the PW.. she is very excited about her "conversation" and can't wait til June after that conversation... I really want to ask H to tell me about his moving out plans before the whole world knows... but....I have to play stupid, right?!? I hate this! I wanna ask him when he does plan on moving out.... tomorrow is Christmas Eve.... fun family Christmas with H, and S(14).


Serenity NOW, Serenity NOW!!! LOL...

Me: 47
H: 41
S: 14
M: 19 years
T: 20 years
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