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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2514763&page=1

My old thread was about to lock, I'm opening Part 12 of the RPP saga. I have changed the name entirely, because yes, I was blindsided, but that's no longer relevant. What I do from here forward is the important part.


Here's the last post on the old thread:
Originally Posted By: labug
What did you decide about the extra day for H with D12?


I decided to offer it to him. But I haven't yet. I will either add it to next week's calendar email or bring it up in person at Christmas. (Although it's hard to get a private conversation with three other people in the house. Talking in bed is not an option!)

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I went to see the surgeon this afternoon, scheduled the surgery for mid-January. I texted H the date, didn't ask anything of him at all, just sending information. His reply was to ask if he should plan on staying at the house a few days. Yes, please, that would be handy. Things are going to be ok.



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I am working your threads.........

In tandem with Maybells and it's taking rather a long time, but your posts are so savvy that I would love your opinions on my sitch.

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Good luck with your surgery. Glad to see a positive response from H.


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RPP,

I love your Zen-ness here...

Originally Posted By: rppfl
I went to see the surgeon this afternoon, scheduled the surgery for mid-January. I texted H the date, didn't ask anything of him at all, just sending information. His reply was to ask if he should plan on staying at the house a few days. Yes, please, that would be handy. Things are going to be ok.


That ^^ is probably your finest DB moment. Kudos!!

Hope the surgery is a success.


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Originally Posted By: Wonka
Hope the surgery is a success.


Hope is giving away your power.

These people know their stuff. It will be a success.


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Good luck with op and good to see you positive. Rd

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Just want to say, you are a DB success story!

Good luck with the surgery. I'll come be your homecare. smile


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Sending blessings with the surgery. The psychic says you only have to visualize something for 68 seconds for it to manifest, so I'll spare you 70 and all shall be well. wink thanks for being a blessing and a great example.


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Originally Posted By: Wonka
RPP,I love your Zen-ness here...

That ^^ is probably your finest DB moment. Kudos!!


Awwww..Wonka, I'm gonna tear up. Thanks.


And thanks to everyone else for the positive vibes you are sending my way. I am more than ready to have this surgery over and done with, it's something my dr suggest a few years ago, I just wasn't ready. But I am now. And labug, I'd love to have you as my home health care. Come on over, dear.

Last night D12 and went to a basketball game and had a great time. Sadly, the Heat lost. Again.

This morning, D12 wanted to make waffles and she also created a topping and a frosting for them, so that they were basically giant cinnamon rolls. H was coming to pick her up, D12 asked if dad could stay for waffles. The teens rolled out of bed just in time and we all had a nice breakfast together. The house looked and smelled good, the Christmas tree is beautiful, we had music on while we were cooking and eating. A nice breakfast.

I played a dirty trick, though, I made sure that a really great pair of shoes I have and a really great underwear set was visible in the bathroom, looking as if I had carelessly thrown them there after taking them off. I know H saw it. He may or may not give a flip, but it amused me a great deal to do it. Maybe I should go back to high school. smile

I have a lot of errands to take care of today. Hope everyone else has a great day!



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