New Place - New Togs - New Me? Mmmm (Part 5)

[jim0987]

Good job

[edz]

Odd today it didnt feel stressful just like meeting an old friend. at one point w offered her hand to shake when we were hashing out s's Christmas schedule I noticed a slight tremble dont know if thats important but im not dwelling on it.

Before she left to pick s up from ice skating and I to go back to the office she offered her hand to kiss as well so at least shes no longer backing away.

during talking about s and the time he spends with me she did re raise that not so long ago he said he didnt know if I loved him (this was before bd and I mentioned that in my first thread) whilst she still falls back on saying hes not sure and still unsure at times - whjch I have to say he doesnt show to me but I accept at face value - she thinks ive worked hard on out relationship (with s not w)

[Vanilla]

Edz

You are detaching, this is a very good position to DB from.

Detachment still means care and love but it will allow you to be more positive in your interactions with W and S.

Frankly W's comments on S are a reflection of her views about you not S's. It is clear to all that S has your love. Love requires demonstration and it seems to me that is happening frequently.

If Edz is love then he can actively pour it into the things he does with S, and say so too.

Really happy for you

Vanilla

[edz]

Evening all

Back in from the works do. Good time had by all, the rest of them are off on a pub crawl but since I was on the soft drinks and have an early start I headed home. Been a busy day, tomorrow taking s to his card event and he'll be staying over.

As I said a busy day.
Catch you tomorrow

[Vanilla]

Well done for GAL, and next time I suggest that you arrange the next day so you can let loose and crawl too. Otherwise points will be deducted.

So when is the next GAL?

Vanilla

[edz]

Hi vanilla

I could have booked it, I didn't want to drink too much in case the emotions resurfaced and overrode the higher brain and undid good work. Speaking to the other guys it only carried on about another hour anyway I did hang on in there!

Upcoming. S card event tonight, were off out tomorrow so s can pick up his present for w and I think well head off to the park or similar depending on weather i m also getting a haircut. Sunday more house stuff and decoration and a bit of swimming, got some a couple of friends popping round for a Christmas drink early in the week then heading up to my dads for Christmas eve as my line manager just reminded me I had it booked off, did that before bd and forgot!

[edz]

Well been a busy work day.

Had Chilli laced mushrooms last night as a starter and they certainly were starting something this morning. Working from home today as most of the office was out and its s's card event tonight so makes sense to not have to slog back in traffic pick up his stuff slog back out to get him from w and then head out.

Lunchtime I went out for a quick walk up to the local discount center (about a mile or two) and picked up some Christmas Crackers, one of the last things on the Christmas stuff list. Also picked up some bits and bobs and a washing up brush which w mentioned could I pick one up if I saw one cheap.

Felt better when I got back for the air and sunshine (flipping cold though). Off out in about 15 minutes to get s, drop off some christmas music w asked for..

..stops for phone call from s checking I remembered to pick up his card stack for this evening...

anyway off in about 15 to go and get him so will post back later.

[Vanilla]

I am fascinated.

What's a card event, surely not teaching S to play poker?

V

[edz]

Ha. Now there's an idea!

Yu Gi Go card game info

They play rounds against each other one to one and trade cards.

[Vanilla]

And what do the mums and dads do?

Vanilla