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Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Vanilla] #2516848
12/13/14 01:17 AM
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OH my god, you guys, what a day! For the first time since BD I'm actually sort of excited about something!

I went and saw this apartment today after work and I'm floored. The situation is that it's a house with an in-law type apartment in the basement. It has its own bedroom, bathroom and private entrance, with a small living room area. It's nothing huge, but enough for a Little trying to get her feet under her and two cats.

The house itself is gorgeous and someone else (who is a quiet professional woman, older than me) is renting the upstairs portion; we'll have to share a kitchen and a laundry room. I went to dinner with her tonight to get to know her and I think we'll suit really well.

So, that said, I think I'm going to take the apartment and move out of where I am.

Sort of apprehensive about the details shaking out, as well as her time line (she wants to get us settled in before January!) but I have a good feeling it will work out for the best.

The bedroom is a tiny bit small, and I hope my Queen sized bed will fit, but other than that I feel like it will be plenty of space for me.

Deep breaths, this is kind of scary, but in a good way!


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2516851
12/13/14 01:24 AM
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That's great news, Little! Moving into my own place made a total difference - especially as I see and interact with people in the hallways. Sounds like a really good fit for you.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: gan] #2516852
12/13/14 01:31 AM
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I'm staying with family now since I moved out of my apartment with BF in October, so this will be a place I can get totally buck naked and dance if I wanna. wink


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2516916
12/13/14 10:19 AM
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Little, Little, Little

Loving the PMA, wish I could be at the house warming all that pagan ritual. Lots of gal points for that.

Sounds brilliant.

Sassy
Vanilla


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Vanilla] #2516944
12/13/14 01:16 PM
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Definitely dance in the new place. I'm very happy for you


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: jim0987] #2517014
12/13/14 07:00 PM
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It's not certain yet. Fingers crossed!

Dealing with some sadness today. I'm bored, I think that's why. Went out to just get out, but I wandered aimlessly, thinking. Bad idea, I know. My good friend is on a trip this weekend so she's not available to keep me busy.

If wishes were fishes, man, I'd turn back time....or make a miracle happen. Blah.

Tomrrow is a new day. I do not know the future.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2517027
12/13/14 08:17 PM
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"If wishes were fishes, man, I'd turn back time....or make a miracle happen. Blah."
Yep.


Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Jefe] #2517039
12/13/14 09:36 PM
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"If wishes were fishes, man, I'd turn back time....or make a miracle happen. Blah."
You've got that right!! Blegh


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: u-turn] #2517056
12/13/14 11:08 PM
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We don't want that stinky turn back time r. It was crapola a miracle r the impossible takes time.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Ggrass] #2517058
12/13/14 11:25 PM
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I don't want the crappy R, but I want a BF that was not thinking about leaving. I guess I'd have to know, back in time, what I know now and be willing to fix it, and save it. Hahahah.

Okay, so in the end that's not possible, but you never know if a miracle is right around the corner. wink


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
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