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My S18 was telling me today, how much he remembers from 8 years ago. It matters.


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Originally Posted By: TSquared2

(picture a 70 year old sweet URworthy, fired up, with a Minnesota accent.


She sounds like my kinda girl...just sayin..LOL! smile

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Originally Posted By: TSquared2

(picture a 70 year old sweet URworthy, fired up, with a Minnesota accent.


She sounds like my kinda girl...just sayin..LOL! smile


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(picture a 70 year old sweet URworthy, fired up, with a Minnesota accent.


She sounds like my kinda girl...just sayin..LOL!




^^^^^ Haha!!!! UR.... I'll teach ya the accent, don't cha know.

(I had to go back and read.... I thought T was talking about my mother!)

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There's no way in Hades UR could talk that slow Midwesterner though... It would give the Brooklynite an anuerism...

Just sayin....

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True freakin that, T2. Aint nobody got time for that. LOL!

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The boys are going through the xmas stuff, sorting out what they want to keep, then I will go through and then the rest will be boxed up and dropped off at her place when I take a couple pieces of furniture over there. They seem to be doing well with this so far.

Getting a small live xmas tree this weekend, trimming the pine trees in the yard to make wreathes, starting some new/old traditions.

Let's see if I can get my middle son in the spirit, he takes after his Mother that way, doesn't like holidays.

Regardless, I am getting excited and in the spirit, started playing my Sinatra Xmas CD last night, had a stupid grin on my face as I cleaned the kitchen.

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My parents, who are visiting for Xmas, had an early birthday celebration for me last night, since they are flying back east before my b-day. During the celebration my Dad had everyone say something about me.

My middle son said that I was the strongest person he knows, how I have been getting through the divorce and the last few years blows him away, he knows I am always there for him.

My youngest said pretty much the same, and that I am his role model, his "rock".

I don't cry (much or often), but this brought tears to my eyes, lots of tears.

It is worth it.

The standing for the M
The pain
The heartache
The working on myself
The standing for myself in the end

It is worth it.

They watched, they saw, they know the truth of the last 3-5 years.

To everyone who is standing, has stood, whether reconciled or not, whether 6 months or 6 years.... Your kids watched, they saw what you did, how you did it, they saw your stength, your hurt, your weakness, your growth. They watched you cope and grow with perhaps the second hardest thing humans have to experience. They watched how you handled yourself, and watch how you are now handling yourself.

It all matters.

It IS worth it.

All of it.

“Be like the forces of nature: when it blows, there is only wind; when it rains, there is only rain; when the clouds pass, the sun shines through.” ~ Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching


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This is awesome T2. Totally. Brought a tear to my eye (you know how hard that is to do LOL)


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Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17
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