Hi T2, Sounds like we are in much the same sitch. D15 has been self-harming and has also been having thoughts of suicide. She kept it all inside for so long and the pressure just built up. I'm having trouble with letting go of the anger I feel towards my STBXW for causing my D all this pain. D15 has started seeing an IC that she seems to like and has stopped cutting for now. The problem going down the road is that she will have visible scars for the rest of her life. No short sleeves, and because she cut her leg as well, bathing suits will be a problem. She now feels even worse about herself because she started cutting, a bad cycle for sure.
You seem to be handling things really well. I'm sure with your support your son will do well. I know how hard this is believe me but I'm sure you and your son will get through this with same grace you have shown through out your sitch!
