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All in all it seems you got to meet a very nice person and there is always a benefit in that. smile


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confused....to say the least!!!

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I agree!


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Btw, those messages she didn't respond to on the night of the snow storm...she actually did and showed them to me but they didn't show up on my Match.com feed. Weird!


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Hummmm couldn't you have met her a few more times? Was she not attractive? How is she to Chinese?


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She's very enmeshed in the culture for e.g. she only watches HK TV. She's attractive but I just couldn't see myself in a relationship with this person. She has a somewhat overpowering personality, is way too Type A...go go all the time, and not a great listener...good talker though lol. I just didn't feel we'd mesh well in a relationship...and I'm Ok with that decision. Again she's a lovely person, glad we met but it's not there for me. It happens.


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Wii -
Have you dated any Non-Asian women since your split? Maybe you should try it out lol.

Have you seen that video online, about if Asian women picked up White guys? Pretty funny. smile

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Wii - sorry she wasn't a good fit for you, but at least you got a night out with an interesting lady. I had my share of "one and done" dates as well. Sometimes it was my choice and other times I was interested in a second date but the other person wasn't.

On to your next contestant in the cyber world of dating!

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I had a few coffee dates a few years back where I was ok with meeting again but they weren't. It happens. One lady said "I just didn't feel the magic"...no problem. If women were upfront and gracious I was fine with it. I tried to be so with this lady. I very much respect her...and her Lexus!


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Kml, I dated the Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders but couldn't understand their accents so I dumped 'em lol.


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Sorry to hear she wasn't what you were looking for.


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