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I think that I may have added pressure throughout our marriage to get results).


This is a major challenge for you. Perhaps you do the same thing in other relationships.

As a former WAW, I can assure you that pressure will not work on her. Training yourself to interact without pressure or emotional blackmail will be work for you. She is not going to work "with" you on the MR until you do this work on yourself.

Anytime the LBS is improving themselves......there is progress!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!