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Wait! It's getting better. Now he's texted me a question about something that has to do with his contemporary band. All about him. I'm going to turn my phone off now.



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Hang in there rpp.

Consider the opinion offered earlier in the thread. Your church has members that are care givers, and enjoy helping.
You are not alone, and you matter!


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I'm sorry, rppfl.


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That's awful of him.


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What an a$$. Rally your support, and surprise H by not reaching out to him AT ALL in need regarding surgery. Show him that you're fine on your own -- even if you don't really feel this way. I can't believe how uncaring and self-absorbed your H is acting. What is wrong with these people. The way I see it is that they are temporarily insane.

And I, for one, am not interested in keeping that in my life. They make it easy for us to move on, if that's what we decide to do. So maybe we should thank them for acting like a$$es. Hard to miss them that way.


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I have the rare luxury or being home alone this morning and what am I doing? Wasting it sitting on my bed crying. I feel very alone and abandoned and unloved today.



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Chin up rp. I'm sitting here alone today as well: not having a great time either. The kids are actually upstairs but they're engrossed in computer games, so it's as good as being alone.

It'll pass. Get busy with something. (((rppfl)))

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Tears = healing. I've invested in waterproof mascara because I tend to break down when I'm driving, which I do a lot of for my job. I HATE waterproof mascara because it's hard to take off. You aren't alone. We're all in this TOGETHER.


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Thanks, OD. I'm at work now. I have a lot to do this morning, then a 6 hour drive this afternoon. It's parents weekend at my S18's college so I'm going up today through Sunday.

Even as I was crying this morning, I recognized the pain as feeling unloved and abandoned, not necessarily about H himself. I just want someone to love me and take care of me. Apparently, H's not going to, and I was strangely OK with that part. It was odd. And when I get to the place where I love myself I think I'll be much better off.



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Originally Posted By: dgb60
Tears = healing. I've invested in waterproof mascara because I tend to break down when I'm driving, which I do a lot of for my job. I HATE waterproof mascara because it's hard to take off. You aren't alone. We're all in this TOGETHER.


Oh yeah, I was ready for work and totally had to re-do my makeup after my little cry binge. I don't like waterproof mascara, either and never wear it, but I might rethink that. smile



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