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Originally Posted By: jim0987


Otherwise focus on you and your kids. You were the first to say it to me so let me hold that mirror up. Be a man only a fool would leave and if she doesnt see it then she's a fool and you deserve better.



I was saying that to myself at circuits last night in my head to keep pushing myself . Did the trick .

My problem is that I'm not likely to see W for her to see my changes .


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Here's a question .
Months before my W started her affair she got us tickets to go watch war of the worlds musical as a birthday present for me .
When she left she said I could have the tickets and take my daughter instead .
Just seen an advert got it on the TV and feel like giving her the tickets back , because I can't see how I can enjoy the show while thinking she got the tickets but has left .

Please someone tell me to grow up and just take my daughter and have a nice time .


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South, grow up and take your daughter and have a nice time. Who cares how you got the tickets? Take advantage of them for a special time with your D.

H and I have a set of tickets to the local NBA team. You'd better believe that I'm going to take my kids and cheer as loudly as anyone. All the more fun that H paid for them.



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What rppfl said smile


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Thirded. Take your daughter and enjoy the time together


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Hi South, I saw the first tour of that at Bournemouth back with W years ago, it was brilliant (if overly loud I thought but thats the BIC) go, dont worry about the hows and the whys, go.

If you enjoy the album (you DO have the album dont you?!?!?) then you'll love that performance.


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Ooooolonnnggg


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No one would have believed....


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Originally Posted By: South74
Originally Posted By: edz
Originally Posted By: jim0987
Cats make good soubding boards - Sometimes 'meow' is all the response what I've said dignifies.


Same here but in my case I believe it means, "that's nice dear, now what about my dinner!".


Lol that's all cats meow for is dinner .


Cats are also brilliant role models for detaching.

Study your cat, take notes and apply.

You probably don't need to do the same amount of licking though.


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My response to that would probably get me straight back into moderation


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