Excellent post, my friend. And yep, you never know what can happen.
You are right, he is responsible for his choices, whether he knew better or not.
You handled that perfectly, but, I am so sorry for your kids. No one deserves to feel unwanted by their daddy.
It takes strength and courage and a huge heart to get to forgiveness but it is where we need to be. Holding onto all of that doesnt serve us well.
I hope and pray that in the future he gets it more and more. He is missing out on some amazing children. While it cant erase their feelings of the past, it can hopefully build some bridges in the future.
Thinking of you today. Good luck and stay positive!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
You will do Awesome today. I keep leaning into God when I feel anxious. It's been really helping me. I relax my shoulders, take a deep breath and let God support me.
Just something that's working for me when I feel nervous.
You will do fine :-)
Can't wait to hear how it turns out.
Lots of love to you,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
I think you are already “becoming”……TIME….it takes time.
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No....I'll be more than ok. I'll be great.
I feel stronger than I have in a long time.
This ^^^^^ up there…confirms…..
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It all makes sense now.
This ^^^^
Good luck on the interview.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Good luck on your interview today! Keeping you in my prayers
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
Thinking of you today!!!!!! Praying that whatever is supposed to happen does- but asking God if he would mind making the "supposed to happen" be that you get the job
Loved your above post about your XH- expecting them to understand things they never learned....... Hmmmm- I'm going to have to spend some time in that one. I think I'm doing the same. We all know what happens when you ASSume!
Hope you have a great weekend
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Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
Good luck, Shining! Sending you lots of power vibes!
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R
