Two months ago my h asked me to go for a walk. I was thrilled. I love quality time. That walk turned into a nightmare as he told me he had been wanting a D for the last 18 months. Not much has changed since then. H travels a lot for work and so our time together is hit and miss. H treats me kindly, we are still intimate and he acts very loving most of the time when he is home. I do not believe there is an A involved after talking to him about it. I truly believe I am sealing with MLC and depression, but h is unwilling to get help. His actions indicate he has hope for us but his words say he has made up his mind. He feels like I am not hearing him and his desire for a fresh start free from the pain life has brought thus far. For the most part I am 'acting as if' he still loves me and our marriage is stable. I am overwhelmed and do not know what to ask or say. Our children have not been told. We have been M 24 years.
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