Well Kat, I actually wasn't going to contact her because I assumed she was a caregiver. These ladies can live very difficult lives...I know first hand. But, when I saw a lady not want to go further with my best friend 'cuz he did "physical labour" I thought maybe I'm just doing the same thing...making blanket assumptions about people. So, I messaged her and she is indeed a caregiver but she also has a long term relationship with her employers, is paid well, has short hours and "couldn't be happier" with her present position. Well, that's pretty darn attractive! So, we shall see. It's just textual relations lol.
Lol. I'm actually nervous! I'm trying to view this as an exciting adventure...but anxiety is what I do best and they say you should go with what you're good at lol! She seems nice and not crazy, as of yet. She says she's very happy with her life (big bonus points for that!), she's been here long enough that there should be no immigration issues, has long term employment...and she's pushing things forward at a nice pace but she lacks the bathroom mirror selfie which concerns me...and I think her phone number is her birthdate and if so, she was born 6 days after me...and with any luck, I'll actually like her.
