Thanks gg, I had no idea it was locked, sh*tty morning this morning, H posted a quote on Fb about "if she's not easy, she's worth it, if she's easy, she's not worthy..." it goes on blah blah, basically not to give up, pffft this is all so bloody dramatic and I'm tired, tired of the games, tired of him being a d*ice, tired of being the one trying to save my m. and then I had a client question mu parenting, saying that I never have the boys, I'm always palming them off, thanks for that, and don't ever re book!
He's talking about ow, not me, that sh*t hurts, so I am out for now, I've had my gut kicked last night, now my parenting questioned, I'm done for now, he's the one who should have his parenting questioned not me. Let him see what it's like, let him deal with her and the kids and everything else...
No the clue he's given you is she's not easy so to him she has more value.
Your easy, your there, your not gone remotely maybe in spirt but his head says your stil there. The ow bff temp checked you on their behalf. You might have passed!
;)lets hope they don't decide your waiting or it could get very hairy.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Ggrass is right, even though he is thinking about ow when he posted that you need to follow that advice.
First, I think you need to UN friend him on fb. This will help your pma and give you the ability to take another step back.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
My fb advice is different Don't unfriend, make the damn thing work for you not against you. 1 block his posts in your news feed, he will still see yours. 2 post things gal. Kids etc. without h 3 do not look at his. Simple it's like he's blocked. 4 post happy positive things
He will not know your looking or not, but he will think you are. Do not mention him. Block ow, if you cannot not look. In fact it might work for you to block her.
Do not be easy, he needs to qualify. Really qualify.
Last edited by Ggrass; 09/18/1412:55 PM.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Do they have a radar?? just when I'm sitting here, thinking about moving forward on my own with the boys, that I have no place in h life, and he sends a pic of the twins sleeping (very cute I might add) and says he thought I'd like it and wanted me to see it before posting it to Fb, seriously...just let me be for now....
been a rough few days, took the boys to a kids festival on Sunday with h, he was pretty remote most of the day, until he got texts from ow. assuming from his behavior over the past few days, he's back together with her, I have well and truly been shunted out the door. We were texting just random polite, everyday family/us/kid stuff and now, Nada. Also if either one of us posts a pic of the boys, neither of us can 'like' each other ppictures. how ridiculous is this? It's a actually getting worse than when we were first s. anyone else have this happen? I'm gal, I'm spending time with the boys, I'm not trying to engage h in any way except with things about the boys, and that is only to say goodnight or to let him know what has happened while they're are staying at my mums and I'm just being dismissed, H has never behaved like since the start of the s, it really hurts.
