We are all guilty of that to some degree. 16yrs is a long time but it goes by fast. Hang tuff your w may be in a fog like the rest of our waw. Don't show anger (easier said then done) don't look needy if and when you see her. 16yrs is a long time you will get your chance again. Hang tuff
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
My W works at a Christian school and has OM. I know mine has some major guilt issues. I've told her if she goes no contact - I will forgive her and try to figure out my short comings in this.
I know God will forgive her, but she may never be able to forgive herself.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
Yeah, no doubt my WW is in the fog. Saying you'd rather go to hell and stay in the A than leave the A and go to heaven is irrational thinking at its worst.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
If they decide not to return as long as we've done the work we can move forward with dignity, respect and love for ourselves. But we must do the work to get there.
I know I don't want the woman my w has become. So I will have a new R - just not sure if is going to be with the new her or not at this point. One day they may come out of the fog.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
I'm going to add you guys to my prayer list. I pray that God will intervene in all our situations and stop the divorces from happening. He says in Malachi that he hates divorce.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
Father, We ask that you would knit our hearts closely together and allow nothing else to come between us. Lord we ask that we both take personal inventory, repent and seek forgiveness for any wrong doing. We pray that we extend love and patience to one another and that the lines of communication, sensitivity as well as understanding are once again opened. We ask that You will allow all the pain, hurt, suffering and disappointment to begin to subside. Lord we ask that forgiveness is welcomed by each of us. Lord we ask that You would allow your joy to flow once again from heart to heart between us. Father, we ask that You direct us as we seek You first in building trust, transparency and both physical and emotional intimacy. Father we pray for peace over our household. Lord we thank you for being who You are and we realize that All the power, All the honor and All the glory belongs to You now and forever, and for this we give you the praise. In the name of Jesus. Amen
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
