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M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Thank you Cadet. Rough day I had to send response to summons. Not real good feeling seeing your name in a lawsuit with your w and kids names on it. Wife knows I had to send it to court house today by 430. Was at L office at 3 filling out paperwork. Devising a strategy. My strategy is to make w work for it. I am not going to make it easy. Painful stuff
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
It's a horrible feeling seeing your name on a lawsuit. I almost vomited when I saw it. I never thought my wife could do such a thing. Mine came on 8/29, so I'm just 2 weeks behind you. In my state there's just a 2 month waiting period, so I could be divorced by the end of November. Unbelievable.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
I don't actually feel to bad today. I feel better getting this part over with. Got home from L office at 5. Took the kids too church for an ice cream social, had a good time while w was home by herself. My D12 wanted to invite her freind to go along, I got on phone with her mom to give directions to church and invited her and her husband to join us. It's a casual freind of my w through our kids. I am sure she can see where never together anymore w kids. She and her husband are very spiritual, we had a great talk about our walk with God. It was all good. WAW at home is just in fog "needing her freedom" I am starting to think I may just give it to her, but will be sticking to my guns on kids and $$$.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
I am sure she will be interested in talking to her L tommorow. I have a lady coming in tomorrow for an interview to replace my part time book keeper, my stbxw. This lady is not to hard on eyes either. As Pilot would say Hah! Anyway taking Twin B6"s on camping trip sat. While D12 go's on field trip with church freinds. It's ironic that I am the active one with kids at all our church functions getting to know some of stbxw freinds. WAW has alienated all her church freinds and family. It will be interesting to see who she turns through for support if we D. I don't think she understand s impact this will have on kids.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Was your wife spiritual before this? Mine used to do devotions every morning. I thought she was a saint. Now she says she can't pray. I know she's not going to church, either. In fact, she told me on two separate occasions that she thought she was going to hell. Crazy.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
Cnfused, you mean already divorced? Or already in hell? I'd say yes to both. My WW has been gone for more than 3 months. I've gotten used to her not being here. And it feels like hell as I hurt every day.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...
Nmwb123, yes w was really into our church more so then myself. She in fact told me she really grew closer to God in Sept last yr and was praying for me to find G back in Sept of last yr. Then she has A in Nov . I told her that was hard for me to understand. Hmm find God , pray for husband, have an A. She was tongue tied. Anyway she gave up on our church. Going to new church where know one knows her. I am glad she is going, you can't hide from God. It doesn't matter what church you go to. My w has told me she was ashamed, and guilty, not much I could say! I didn't want to validate because I didn't want to make her feel any worse then she already felt. Your wife saying she was going to hell kind of same thing. Don't kid yourself she will have to deal with this and God at some point let her go deal with it herself. She knows it's wrong. Hang tuff you are just getting started.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
