Thank you Bug. Crimson, I am happy to see how your situation has evolved. Definitely something to be proud of. I concur with your appreciation of the changes we have made, as a result of these challenging times. Hope you all are enjoying your long weekend.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
HI LITB, I'm glad to hear that you are working on your M again and that you have gone to Retro. I rarely come back to the forum as I'm too busy but once in a while I see familiar names and so glad that you are one of those whose sitch is turning around. Keep on working on it, don't be discouraged if ever you still have backslides (we all will have it once in a while). Take care!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
Long time no hear...so glad to read this. i'm ever the cautious one b/c too many reconciliations happen too quickly, if at all. But YOU already know this. It's hard to imagine too much care handling this, so I'd advise you to take it slow, yet I know you are already.
I'm sending you prayers and light and love. Sorry about the GF (for her sake, not yours) and have to say I really believe SOME WAWs need to see their h's in the rms of OW to wake up. Not that she wouldn't have anyway, but it's good for YOU and her to know that you have options.
As confusing as that can be, I recall feeling better knowing that I had choices. I was not staying married out of fear, but b/c I was empowered to choose. No feelings of being trapped. There is a lot to be said for that, at least for me.
Keep on keeping on, and do stay in touch please!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I apologize in advance for the hijack, but it shall be a short one. CRIMSON, where are you and what the heck is going on?
Can you update us somewhere, somehow, and all that?
Okay, now back to LITB....
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
Things are going really well for us. We are going on 7 months since we agreed to reconcile. My W and I have been living together as a family since the beginning of October.
We have all been attending church together, and become a member. It has made a tremendous difference. It has been a positive change for our kids.
Overall, things are going well. Not really much to update.
How are things with you? Hope you are well.
Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas!!
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Hello LITB. I just wanted to say I wish you and your family the best. I just read you thread here and it is very inspirational to me. I really admire your strength. Thank you for all you posts.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014
