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Maybell #2483747 09/01/14 12:58 AM
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I bought a new perfume after my H left, too. It was my "strength scent". Which one is yours?


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.
Ss06 #2483748 09/01/14 12:59 AM
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Calvin Klein Downtown. Sexier than Happy -- it makes me feel desirable.

TMI?

What's yours?

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Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Maybell #2483749 09/01/14 01:02 AM
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TMI? Not at all! I went with Ralph Lauren Romance. Makes me feel feminine but self-assured.

THIS is the kind of stuff that helps us stand up. It's the little things like perfume that we still got it INSIDE. We don't need others to tell us, we KNOW it. We just have to become it.

Rock on, Maybell.


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.
Ss06 #2483753 09/01/14 01:10 AM
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Party on, Ss!!


Me42, H40
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A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Maybell #2483758 09/01/14 02:08 AM
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Now I want to go buy new perfume!

My big beauty change post-S is to get my eyebrows waxed. My eyebrows are blonde so I've never really worried too much about maintenance, but I feel so much more put-together now.


Me: 33 Him: 35
T: 13 M: 11
D7
BD, S: Jul 3rd, 2014
Elsa #2483768 09/01/14 03:07 AM
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Elsa, eyebrows are HUGE when it comes to your face structure. I didn't realize that myself until I had mine done and WHOA! Game changer.

I'm happy to see so many women taking care of themselves for themselves. How awesome is that?


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.
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We need a thread for beauty tips? wink


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D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Maybell #2483777 09/01/14 03:41 AM
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Yes! How fun!


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.
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If that was all it took... smile

I want to go back to the vulnerable piece for a minute, see how in being vulnerable you took a step forward?

We often are so paralyzed by our fear of getting hurt, looking foolish, rejection that we create just what we don't want.

You can't have a true connection with anyone without vulnerability. It's all about "daring greatly." (Brene Brown)

Have fun bowling.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
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There's a lot of suspicion still lurking around.

If he was this willing to be open to connection then why couldn't he have been all along?

What if I'm misconstruing what he's doing? What if he really does just want to transition us to friendly in preparation for divorce and I'm letting him?

(DB coach says assume he's doing what I'm hoping for because it feeds the likelihood I'm right... But what if that's magical thinking?)

I expect to hear: he's willing to connect because of my changes. He couldn't before because he wasn't there. I wasn't there. OW was in the picture.

It's a measure of how bad things were before that I don't believe he could miss me. When he traveled for work I thought it was out of sight, out of mind because he's so focused and what he does is so interesting.

Or maybe I've gotten used to (or always have) thought of myself as invisible.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
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