I'm sorry you didn't get the response you were hoping for. Are you going to put your focus back where it belongs now, or do you have another sideshow up your sleeve?
What are you doing to GAL that is just plain old flat out fun?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
Ugh. It turned into a day long barrage of mixed emotions. Hate followed by Messages of remorse wishing she had met me when I was healthier, followed by questions as to how I've changed in the last four months followed by more hate and then more remorse and then finally just exhaustion and apathy.
It's really, really strange to see her so off-balance. She's never been one to spew hateful things. It makes me really sad to know how much she is hurting.
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Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14
Strangely, seeing her SO off kilter gives me room to take some space. They say you get to know people when the chips are down. I'm investing 5-10 hours a week in therapy and 12-step. I send love and kindness to her in my prayers and mediation. She's waking up wishing I was dead and telling me she HATES me when she communicates with me. I understand she's hurt more than I can comprehend, but HATE is a strong word. It's ugly. It's not who or how I want to be.
Me: 39 - W: 35 Together: 2 years, no kids My Affair: 1.5 years Affair ended: 4/9/14 Affair revealed: 5/19/14 Last Contact: 8/2/14
