#42. 50 is the new 40!

[kat727]

Hey i am not easy. I don't care how long I end up waiting. It is going to mean something. No offense Gineen.

Kat

[mishka422]

The name of that restaurant did crack me up though. It sure gets people looking at their sign!

[kat727]

I thought it was some kind of pick up bar.(Blushing) My bad. Sometimes it bothers me that is has been a while but I don't want to do it just for the sake of doing it. tha t part of me hasn't changed. It has to mean something.

kat

[whatisis]

You stick with that attitude. You have to do what is right for you. Personally, I've always found sex with someone who I know loves and cares for me is far superior to the alternative. There's a tenderness and caring for each other that's not there otherwise. Don't worry, I'm sure Big Pecker's will be there for a loooong time lol.

[whatisis]

Kat, if you're looking for an alternative restaurant, here's one that will grow on you. I went to high school across the street from here and frequented it regularly...it was a tavern then.
http://www.urbanspoon.com/r/10/1724941/restaurant/North-York/Hung-Long-Restaurant-Toronto

[kat727]

Only you wii! I consider myself lucky that I am not a big fan of oriental food. Not there is anything wrong with that! lol So amazed that I can get on here, but so happy too. I really love helping and hate that I just have to check in silently. Hopefully this isn't just a fluke.

kat

[Underdog]

I like Oriental food! But I went on a long hiatus because I had Mongolian Beef every day for 5 months when I was preggers with D17. Needless to say, she adores Chinese and Thai. I just started really liking it again.

BTW, I don't believe that 50 is the new 40. I don't feel anything like I did at 40. I felt the same at 40 as I did at 30, but not now. My body is just operating differently. I sure hope you don't have the same!

I'm so glad you had a great birthday. You sure deserve it!

Hugs,

Betsey

[kat727]

I think I am viewing it as a redo for my 40's which of course for the most part were awful. My aunt had the terrible 50's at least for the first few years so she wen ta bit overboard celebrating mine. Perhaps to throw good Karma my way.

The job I am drawn towards is a telecommuting job with them based in NYC. Their mission is to wipe out homelessness. I just don't know if it would pay enough but it would certainly feel great to make a real difference in people's lives. Things to consider.

kat

[mishka422]

Oh wow! That's quite an endeavor for sure. Homelessness is one of the most devastating conditions anyone could find themselves in. I have volunteered at our Real Life center with our church and just handed out food, blankets, clothing, etc to families who come to the center looking for help. Some of them are homeless, others have had a tragedy and are on the verge of homelessness. It was a real eye opener to realize that even though I feel like I'm about to be on the street, I'm still doing better than I think I am.

I hope the pay might be enough to sustain you and your family. That would be an amazing thing to do.

[kat727]

But get this. I told you guys how I have been looking for something part time. There was a part time I was interested in that gave "haunted tours" on Friday and Saturday nights. It was maybe 2-3 hours each night. Originally the gal told me she didn't have any thing in either location. Today she called me back and wants to do a phone interview! She told me earlier that she wanted someone with a stable work history, that's me! So what do you guys think? Walking for a long period, 2 nights a week just might get my weight down, plus doing something that I am interested in.

It is year round though. I don't know what happens if there aren't any bookings besided I am guessing that I wouldn't get paid. Guess I should have the interview first!

kat