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Hey MDU,

We're rooting for you on the success of Operation Z Bread! laugh

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Operation Z bread may have been a fail frown I gave H the package & he guessed that the bread was in it. He seemed genuinely happy & appreciative. The bag was sealed so he did not immediately see the card. But now it's 5 hours since he left & still has not contacted me to thank me for the card. I suppose it's possible he still has not opened the pavkage, already knowing what's in it. But I suspect if I don't hear from him tomorrow about it that means the card was too much :-(


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No way! It was perfect, mdu.

I bet you're right: betcha he hasn't opened it since he guessed it was zucchini bread.

All things will happen in their own perfect timing ...

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Stay positive!!


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Thanks train. So glad I tried this with my brother & sister in law here. They really help keep my PMA up regardless


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See? Perfect timing there, too!

PS If you have no expectations, you'll have no disappointment! wink You're doing great, mdu.


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True, I did a kind thing and I can feel good about that, regardless of how it ends up received.


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Still no response on the card. Typical of him to avoid if something is tough so I assume his reaction was not good. Continues to amaze me how far we've slipped backwards with OW arrival. Wow. My brother & family leave this afternoon, going to be tough


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Don't mind read. He may have had a positive response but felt he'd said enough when he thanked you in person.

Would he typically have thanked you for a card pre-A?


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Hmm...so he just texted: "Thanks for the break. It is yummy. I am not sharing!"

Nothing about the card, which is a bit odd. I gave him hand written cards recently for Fathers day and his b-day he was very appreciative. The Father's day one he said 'brought tears to his eyes.' I suppose it's possible that he accidentally threw out the package with the card in it...I contemplated asking him about it just in case but don't think I should. If he purposely is not bringing it up I certainly don't want to pressure him.


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Originally Posted By: mdu
Hmm...so he just texted: "Thanks for the break. It is yummy. I am not sharing!"

Nothing about the card, which is a bit odd. I gave him hand written cards recently for Fathers day and his b-day he was very appreciative. The Father's day one he said 'brought tears to his eyes.' I suppose it's possible that he accidentally threw out the package with the card in it...I contemplated asking him about it just in case but don't think I should. If he purposely is not bringing it up I certainly don't want to pressure him.



Jeezus, mdu, GIVE THE MAN A BREAK ALREADY!!! If I were your husband right now, I would feel "there is no pleasing her!"

Stop it. This is a self-destructive, cheese less tunnel.


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