You're totally right. Shoot. Although I did just recently send him a message saying that when things are work related, we will both do our best to help out. (I would not have offered to help if it was strictly a social thing. It is a work-related thing, he says, connected to this new position .) And, it shows a change in me since I was often resentful/jealous of his work opportunity. The 180 for me is that I didn't immediately offer to cancel my plans or throw a fit about it. It means he will miss a night with his D3, again. That is a consequence.

I realized that I used to, quite often, get mad/be resentful of things that had perfectly good solutions that didn't involve me staying home with our D3.


Me 38 H 40
D 3
T 8 M 6
BD 10/2013