Taking it day by day

[woundedfool]

So back to my other question:

How do you think your "appeal" for money will be received?

I guess.... why do you think you can/will say something that will inspire him to fulfill his obligations (that your L would not already/should be saying)?

[T384]

Oh no it wouldn't. It's just stirring up a hornets nest. I was just upset last night.

We still haven't heard from his attorney so I guess he won't be bringing the truck back with him tomorrow and he will be leaving it with his boss. If I wasn't leaving out of town I would fly there and pick it up since I know where they are staying.

[T384]

Well we never heard from H lawyer so my lawyer said to plan on him not returning the vehicles and plan on him leaving the excursion in the keys.
I can't believe his lawyer would just ignore my lawyers calls and emails. At least respond and let her know the deal you thought we had is off.


We have filed a motion for an emergency hearing. I will be on the hunt for the vehicles this week and plan on taking them if I can find them since I have extra keys. We had put off doing this because she didn't want me to disturb the peace Sknce he was helping pay some bills but now that he's not she told me if I can find them to go ahead.

[T384]

Is there hope when your soon to be ex husband's OW and her family post pictures all over social media of them
Kissing and sleeping next to each other?? I'm starting to realize he just doesn't give a sh** about the boys and I and never will. She posted that she is his queen protecting her king while his life is a mess. Barf

I know not to say anything but my mom really wants to since she is friends wjth him on Facebook and sees everything Ow and her family tag him in including them posing next to my truck writing 'be jealous'

Just tell me he's a lost cause

[oad]

wow what an ahole....sorry to say that but what kind of a person can be so insensitive..sheeeshhh.

[Nettles]

Get your mom to unfriend H. It serves no purpose for you to hear about it. And it looks like H and OW put things out there knowing you will find out. Don't give them the satisfaction.

[T384]

Ya I asked all of my family to unfriend him. I have a feeling he and his gf are trying to get a response out of me since I have taken the bait yet.

It's a lost cause. I probably just need to stop posting here.

[Maybell]

No! He may or may not be a lost cause... But you are definitely NOT a lost cause!!

You're making such good progress. Keep it up, no matter what kind of tool he is.

[Ben2010]

T0,

That post angered me and its not even my sitch. What a F*ckbag your H is. There is certainly no reason to rub that in your face like that. The previous me would have had a million things to pay him back with based on that. But we all know that wont do any good. Probably the best thing you can do right now is completely ignore him as best you can. I hope he wasnt that much of an a$$hole in your good times.

I agree with Maybell though, you need to continue DBing for yourself. We are all here to support you. Im sorry that youre having to go through this. No one deserves that. Keep at it though, youre a better person.

[woundedfool]

I can't tell you how to feel, or how I would. At least my exW kept her EA/PA quiet.

I have zero doubt (as mentioned above), it is done to get a rise out of you.... don't let it. It is sad really... not for you; for them. She is clearly still in high school mode, little does she know the queen can't protect the king..... in most cases the king "did away" with the queen.

The alien still has him.... Will he return? No one knows... just keep on your path.