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I received a phone call from a potential client wanting to use gift vouchers, which had expired, as I like to do what I can to help, I said that I'd be happy to honor them as long as they were not too far past the expiration.
The client would only give me her first name, I have just found out that this "client" is actually the ow....I hate game players. grrr


How tacky! Tell her expired means expired.


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I hate gift vouchers that have expired: it's such a con. But in this case ... what a cheeky ***. I agree with pilot.


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seriously, this is the woman who he wants right now? some who plays games like this?? kind of says where his head is at right now.

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Originally Posted By: watto14
I received a phone call from a potential client wanting to use gift vouchers, which had expired, as I like to do what I can to help, I said that I'd be happy to honor them as long as they were not too far past the expiration.
The client would only give me her first name, I have just found out that this "client" is actually the ow....I hate game players. grrr


Seriously????

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and h and ow are now friends on Fb, wow its all happening in a big hurry...

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righto, Dr from the beginning again, here we go....

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So how about seeing a lawyer for some knowledge?

I probably would mention to h that his OW called you with that "game" (which was odd at best, cruel at worst)

and leave it at that. Drop it. Do not engage further. And see a lawyer. I don't understand the reluctance to do that, b/c you cannot afford NOT to have the information you need to make smart decisions that protect you and your kids.


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and the hits keep coming, today I went to see my mil, h told her about ow last night, he wants his mother and step dad to meet her.
h has had ow come to his house late at night, hide her car in a parking lot and then walk over to his house.
I am absolutely broken, I don't think I can take much more, I don't even know what I would say to him when I see him tomorrow when I go to pick up the boys.
everything is moving so quickly, its all a blur, we have been separated for four months, obviously he's been seeing her for longer.
25mlc, I haven't seen a solicitor yet as up until this point I saw no need, one because I believed that he wanted time to sort himself out, two because we always said it was about the boys first, and third because up until the last 3 days(and yes I know he's lied in the past) he has never been THIS man, I don't even see a glimmer of who my h was.
I don't whether to tell him all that I know, or to simply pick up the boys and take them home.
please, I know there will 2x4's coming, but could the blows be lighter, I really just need to know that I'm not alone right now, that others have come out the other side.

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I'd say nothing watto when getting boys. Act 'as if'. Do not show any pain or hurt. You can do it!!!


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You're not alone. Others have come out on the other side. Read Train's thread in infidelity, it is astounding.

See a solicitor. It will set your mind at ease.

Don't talk to your H when you get your boys. You are in shock and need time to process.

I'm not sending you a 2x4 because what you need is a hug. So...

(((Watto)))


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