Originally Posted By: figgeroni
trust your husband...
he gave you this information knowing how you might react.


Hi mdu, been a while since I've had anything to add but I have been following and you've come a long way. I think this quote from figgeroni hits the nail on the head. You seem to post a lot without seeing what you're posting. By now, you KNOW that you flipping out is a deal breaker for him and he STILL came to you with this information. That's big! That's positive. See the positive, feel the positive and act positive.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014