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job #2478969 08/14/14 01:28 PM
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Job,

I don't think Tad is gay. wink

Tad,

What a great update! I am so happy to see that you're turning your life around for the better.

Ohhhh...I loved Red and Andy in that movie.

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Wonka,
Thanks for pointing out my typo. Tad, as time moves along, you will definitely not have as many thoughts about your xw. Sorry about the typo.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Thanks Job and Wonka.

No worries about the typo Job. I knew what you meant. smile

Journaling:

Oh....the setbacks.

Pretty big one today. It's funny how they can just hit right out of the blue. Not even sure what set it off. I was doing so well.

XW talked to S28 on the phone today. She wants to "hang out."

It just bothers me I think because even though my life is getting better, it is still not where I want it to be. Her life? Her life = wine and roses.

My wedding anniversary is coming up at the end of the month. August 30th would have been 29 years. Maybe that's it.

Was doing so well then BAM!

This time of year always [censored].

Hopefully tomorrow will be better.

Sorry to vent. This board is all I have to vent to. smile

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13
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Tad,

I was just razzin' Job for that wonderful typo...not much opportunity to tease Job. She left that one wide OPEN.

Be grateful that W wants to hang out with your son! That is a positive. Focus!

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XW talked to S28 on the phone today. She wants to "hang out."

Hang out with you or with your son? Either way, let it go. That's her son too.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Thanks MrBond and Wonka.

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Hang out with you or with your son?


Haha. Now that's funny! Surely not with me. I'm still Satan.

Not sure if you meant to or not, but thanks for making me laugh. I actually chuckled.

I've started a new thread. It can be found here:

How HER crisis changed ME

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13
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