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I know this is a marriage saving site and I promise to update this thread later with all the db mistakes I made during labor.

I am asking for prayers please for Lillian. She arrived at 2:32 this afternoon and was transferred to another hospital and placed in the NICU. I am grateful they released Mr so I could go be with her.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction



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Awww, sweetie, I hope she's doing okay. Sending prayers.

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Twinmom,


Thoughts and prayers for your daughter Lilian and yourself. Hope the both of you are doing ok. Sending positive thoughts your way!

Dev


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive
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Labour is a great excuse, to look after twin mom first, not your hubby.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
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Thoughts & prayers with u & Lillian!


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14
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Prayers for you both.

Agree, DB is irrelevant when you're birthing a baby.

Keep us posted.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
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Prayers just sent your way, Twinmom! Wisdom for her caregivers, and healing for her little body!

And COMFORT for you. smile

Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
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Thinking of you and Lillian, and prayers are being sent your way, twin.

Keep us posted!!!


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
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Sending good thoughts your way smile



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BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
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HUGE guilt, can't stop sobbing/being slightly hysterical right now. Lilly is going through withdraw symptoms from the zoloft and ativan I took because I couldn't handle the situation between me and H.

I stopped taking it about a month ago so this wouldn't happen but it still did. They are treating her for the withdrawals and she will be here minimum 5 days.

We are not at the hospital where I delivered so I was "discharged" after 2 hours and no room to sleep in here just a waiting room.

They won't let me nurse her because they want to measure everything so I have to pump and give a bottle when all I really want to do is hold her close to me. We aren't allowed to hold her at all. H has not held her at all yet, I was allowed to immediately after birth but only for a few minutes till they took her away.

I hurt my baby because I couldn't handle stress, worst f'ing mom ever. I can't even look at her knowing I did this to her.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction



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