Our relationship is getting deeper an deeper. She wants me to spend almost every night at her home. Today I slept in the living room. In the morning after I had taken shower she sat on my lap and hugged me, and told me that she loves me. I answer that I also love her.
Also she often shares about her problems with the OM. She admitted that he continues to bother her and she hardly manages to handle with his intrusion.
Also she often shares about her problems with the OM. She admitted that he continues to bother her and she hardly manages to handle with his intrusion
I am happy that you feel that things are progressing nicely. I would caution you to be careful. I may be wrong but it seems like you may be living in the "friend" zone, which is good becuase of your daughter..may not be so good as it relates to a future R with your X.
Based on your post...
1) She contacts you often - usually this is follwed by you having to fix or do something.
2) She mentioned that she needs a man. By your own admission, she seems to pay for everythign and you do not have many resources.
3) She has you over when she is lonely...yet you are sleeping on the sofa.
I am not saying that you are not making progress, I am just worried that you are working to hard to just be a friend.
Be careful Nukem..be careful.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Wow. Nukem must have reconciled with his W? Does any one know? I hope it's happily ever after like the fair tale I was hoping to live. It's always going to be work for me, I'm sure.
Hi all, and sorry for my late answer. I should be honest and will confess that I did not try harder. I did no do my best, didn't even try. It looks like I lost interest.
Indeed, the connection between us is very strong. We call each other 2-3 times a day. She asks me what I am doing, tells me about her day and yoga class. Yesterday she asked my why I haven't stayed till later hour in her parents house, they are living there during the summer. There is more strange things - at the afternoon I went at their mansion to take our girl for a walk. My ex was sunbathing and she even undressed her clothes lying under the sun just with her underwear. There's something more - few weeks ago we had a love play 2-3 times.
Anyway, there is no pressure, nor hidden or false feelings. If there is something to happen it will sooner or later.
As for me, I am applying Warrior diet of Ori Hofemekler, lost lots of fat, and training in the gym and at the stadium. I spent 8-9 days in Greece with my daughter, my brother in law and my niece. Overall I enjoy my life but do not have long term plans like finding my vocation or continuing my education.
Thank you for your interest. Be with you as soon as there is something interesting.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
We live separately, but I am 500m meters away and they could rely on me at any time. I help my daughter each weekend with her homework. The best you could do is thinking positively. Life is great and we should take the maximum of it
