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"P.S. The "Now you've REALLY blown any chance you had" thing is #1 on the Wayward Spouse Hit Parade script, you do know that . . . right? Mine said EXACTLY the same thing when she found the VAR in her car (which I replied with "I have no idea how that got there . . . maybe OM put it there, have you ever considered that? -- always fun to use their own paranoia against them "

what does this mean when they say you blew your only chance you had??? what are they thinking???


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Wife just text me. "I f@#$ up my back and neck yesterday thats what I get". Not sure why she is telling me she hurt her back and neckthis tex came. Right at the end of my IC appointment. I don't think I will text her back. I'm going dark on her. She knows I go to IC every tues at noon.


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I don't think I will text her back. I'm going dark on her. She knows I go to IC every tues at noon.



I think you just answered your own question. cool


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Wife called me 2 times and text 3.times. text 3 more times. She said I guess were not talking. Text 2 after she called it said I take that as a no. Text 3..there are a couple things I need to discuss with you calmly. So now what is she trying to bait me into a conversation. First of all I have been nothing but calm during any conversation unlike her. What do I do about that last text?


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Wait about 2-3 hours, and then respond with an upbeat "Sorry, just got these. Been in appts. all afternoon. Wassup?"

(or something similar)


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Sounds good. Lol


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Call or text it


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Call. Easier to pull off the "upbeat" thing (IF you can pull that off? If she sends you spiraling when you talk to her, then text it, but include a winky face or smiley face or something).


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I called W back, I was upbeat and told her I was in a working meeting all afternoon and now we hav an arrest blitz tonight so I told it going to be pretty busy tonight, and she said she was still at work and couldn't talk, the funny thing is she never answers her phone at work because there not allowed to. I asked wassup and she really didn't seem to have anything to say, so I said I have to go and told her good bye.

she did send me a text an hour prior to me calling her back and this is what it said. "Fine (my name)...F U! I'll remember that when you need or want to talk to me. I won't be available for anything anymore. Be ready!" Sounds like she wants to punish me. because I didn't answer you on the first text or call you back right away.

This is not the first type of text i get and I use to fall for them.

"the one who cares the least has all the power"


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She said THAT an hour before you called her back, and you still stuck to that script????

Oooh boy. (((smh)))


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