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Wonka #2510772 11/25/14 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By: Wonka
Hey Raine!

What a wonderful update, baby! I am so, so happy for you, H, and the family.

How's your DB baby doing lately? Isn't he 1 year old by now? How many teeth does he have?

Hey Pretty Lady! He is just over 18 months now, climbing, running, into everything. He is incredibly feisty, like his mom...and has a full set of teeth to go along with it. Every morning H gets him up and changes him and gets him going for the day. I love how cute they are together. smile

He is the sweetest little all boy fella you could ever imagine. Super rough and tough. He growls and makes sure you knows he is in charge. He will fall off something, grunt, and just keep going. And then there are times I will play a certain song and he just runs over and jumps in my arms, lays his head on my shoulder, and wants me to dance with him. He will stay that way through the entire song, and then give me a big "muah!" kiss and then off he goes again.

He is such an amazing blessing and I feel so incredibly lucky to have him. I see him as my little miracle.

I hope you are doing well!


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17
Raine #2510801 11/25/14 01:17 PM
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Raine,

Sounds like the little man is growing by leaps and bounds. Yes, he's definitely your miracle baby and I'm very happy that your h is a hands on dad now that he's back to reality. I can't believe he's 18 months old! Time flies! Enjoy him while he's little because they sure do grow up quickly.

I'm very happy that your h has made it to the other side. Your marriage is a new and improved one. Enjoy every minute of it because you fought the battle and won.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Job,

Time sure does fly! Everything is just a blur. H has always been hands on, but now he is going above and beyond. He knows more about what is going on with school work than I do. It's really nice to know that some things are being handled by someone else so I don't have to think or worry about it.

I am incredibly happy too. I feel very lucky and blessed to be where I am. It is a "pinch me" is this real kind of existence. There is definitely minor conflict here and there, but it's discussion. We don't get angry or raise or voices or anything like that, and I wouldn't have it any other way. If everything was just perfect, it wouldn't feel real. H is really conscious to not tell me what he thinks I want to hear.

I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving! Thank you so much for all your help along the way and all the help you've given others.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17
Raine #2510940 11/25/14 07:24 PM
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My friend, I am so very happy for you. You did the work. You walked the walk. It all paid off. I so admire your strength and courage.

I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving.

<3

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Thanksgiving was amazing smile I hope yours was as well. I can never thank you enough for all the help and support you gave me. I think the world of you!


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M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17
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So happy to hear these updates, Raine smile

How exciting about your miracle baby! I can just picture him from your description.

I know what you mean about the "pinch me" is it real? And also the minor disagreements. I realized my H and I have learned to actually disagree without being disagreeable!

Keep going and many congratulations!


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March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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Raine, my friend, you know I feel the same about you. I am honored if I helped in any way and beyond happy that it worked out the way it has for you.

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Hey friends! Quick check in while I'm finishing up some work that I have put off all weekend. Life is amazing. Everything is going great! Valentines was beyond special. H surprised me with one thing after another.

H and I have both been working really hard and fully supporting each other. Yet, we put each other first in everything. And because of that, I feel like everything else just falls into place. Kids, work, life, everything in its rightful place.

Our relationship is beyond anything I ever imagined was possible with anyone. I feel we are in such a good place and thing just continue to get better and better. All of our dreams are coming true, and I'm realizing that's because we are making it happen. Together we are unstoppable.

I feel the love I have for him just grows more and more every day, and he never ceases to surprise me with all the loving, sweet, thoughtful things he does and says to me every day.

I can't stop thinking about him. We have been married for nearly 15 years, (never minding that glitch along the way) and yet when I kiss him, my heart starts racing. When I look into his eyes, I can hardly breath. I feel like some crazy, twitterpated school girl...and I'm totally okay with that. He gets me and accepts me on every level and I just can't imagine my life feeling complete without him.

Box checked!


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17
Raine #2539172 02/17/15 04:39 AM
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Ah, my friend, I couldnt be happier for you both. You did the work, you stood for your love...now you are reaping the rewards.

Love you, sweetie. All the best always.

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Wonderful to hear...there is hope:)


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
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