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(NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: dbmod] #2346806
05/08/13 11:25 PM
05/08/13 11:25 PM
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I've posted 6 times in the last 3 days (reflected in my profile), started my own thread, the rest were replies---I can't see anything I've posted. When I go to "My Stuff" >>> "Posts", nothing. frown

Is there a set number of posts I need to make in order to get out of moderation, waiting for a mod to have time to be online to clear stuff is hard. No other forums I am a part of moderate in this specific way, so I am clueless.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope
Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: RosaLinda] #2348498
05/13/13 08:04 PM
05/13/13 08:04 PM
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Posts: 12,925
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Originally Posted By: LindaM
Originally Posted By: NotGivingUp!
Finally have a signature on the forum.


How did you do it? When I add even one character, I get a message that my signature is too long! Does it have something to do with being on moderation?

Thanks
Linda M

I believe that you need a minumum number of posts to have a signature.

It might be 10, but I am not totally sure of the number.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: Cadet] #2369294
07/21/13 03:18 AM
07/21/13 03:18 AM
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Your signature ability happens concurrently with your approval as a member/poster. There is no set number of posts. It occurs with a good posting history.


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Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: dbmod] #2377639
08/19/13 05:54 PM
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I am a new poster, and I have to find a little humour in this. I think a partof what got my marriage not trouble is not having enough patience.....so having to wait for post approval is a small step in learning a bit of patience. ;-)

Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: Muse] #2418490
12/28/13 05:09 PM
12/28/13 05:09 PM
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Posts: 1,593
Rocky Mountains
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Dear Mods,

I apologize for whatever I did that caused me to be placed on moderation. I did read the rules and thought that my posts were within them; apparently I was incorrect. I will be sure to post nothing even remotely questionable in the future. Please, please would you be so kind as to take me off moderation? This board has been my lifeline through the most difficult time in my life, and if I may say so, I think that my support has been valuable to others as well. As I am sure you are aware, it is difficult to give and receive advice and support when on moderation.

Thank you for your consideration.

melissag


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14
Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: melissag] #2431497
02/17/14 01:02 PM
02/17/14 01:02 PM
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Posts: 343
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How would one know if they were on moderation? I have posted several times recently and even days later I don't see my messages show up. I'm guessing I haven't been approved yet. I take it we just wait and keep sending out posts and eventually...?


M: 36 W: 31
Married 9 yrs.
T: 11 yrs.
Son 8 yrs. (w/ Autism)
Bomb Drop 10/22/13
Divorce final 6/15
Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: Bunches] #2431549
02/17/14 06:07 PM
02/17/14 06:07 PM
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Yes Bunches, you will see your posts in real time soon. Just keep posting!


M45 H46
M16 yrs
D17, D10, D7
DB 1-23-2014
H filed D 2-14-2014
Re: (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: MamaB] #2466701
07/07/14 11:15 PM
07/07/14 11:15 PM
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Posts: 1,106
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I've got a list of 'resources for feeling better' my therapist gave me that may be of use to people, particularly newcomers. There are about 2 pages of them. A couple of examples are:

Keep a gratitude journal: brain research shows that daly writing down 5 things we are grateful for improves brain functioning and elevates mood.

Go for a walk / move your body even if just for a minute! Moving physically moves us emotionally - this is why it is called emotion.


Would this be allowed? And if so where should I post it?


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Re: Board Policies [Re: Virginia] #2468057
07/11/14 09:35 PM
07/11/14 09:35 PM
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I haven't been able to post anything for 2 days now. Can this please be looked at?


ME 31 / W 35
M 3 / T 7
S 2 / S 14 D 5 / D 8

ME MOVED OUT 06/07/14
W THINKS D WOULD BE BEST FOR EVERYONE 7/2/14
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