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Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) #42497
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Quote:

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A lot of "going dark" FYI stuff here.....

DB / DR 101 - Back To The Basics!





Is it me or is this link only pointing back to the Main Index?





I get the same thing, Main Index.


Me 45
WAW 46
Married 23yrs
D22
S18
D12
W moved out 1/12/07
Divorce Final 2/06/08
Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) [Re: Done] #1730360
03/09/09 11:40 AM
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Right just found lots of textx to this girls all day sat fri all amounts. Just called him and told him to come home at lunch cos I need to end this. He said what |and I said this torment. I'm going to confront him. May blow up in face and I maybe I should hold off til counselling but Oh I'm angry


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids

Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) [Re: Regrets] #1730368
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So what I have here is

1 one day out of the blue, H claims does not love me, doesn't know why, when pushed claims it's because I moan if he forgets stuff from shops, exaggerates past arguements.
2 week be IDLY stays out til 5.30am with work mates

3. I find lots of texts to one particular work mate
4. Find viagra in is jeans
5. Texts all the time

hmmmm, think I've woken up

Not going to cause a scene


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids

Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) [Re: Regrets] #1730790
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If anyone is reading these please reply. Does LRT also mean NC, the reason I ask is it's almost impossable for that to happen for me because I have not even moved out and she has resonded a lttle from this technique! she was even suggestive about sex. I don't want to over do any thing or under do anything. She is not happy right now with some of her choices but I hold firm with LRT and it seems to be working. asking me to help but not live there I stood my ground on that. I do not contact her at all unless there is something that has to be done and not for her. but I do give a little but not so readly. I think she is starting to feel that it does suck without me. She has been on a man hunt now for months. I don't jump on every little signal from her good or bad. I see the pressure building on her though and I don't want to slip when I should make a move even a slight one with the small flirts I have over looked. Do I hold out this way for a better responce or when they do become suggjestive in the right dirrection should I lean a little more in that dirrection also? BTW I am not sure if she is sill working on OM with the way she has been frustrated I would say it's not good. Talk to me.....

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Me 40
waw 39
Never formally M
Common law
SD 16
SS 13
Together 9 yrs
bomb 10/2/08
She started dating 11/08
Started P/A 01/09
Contiunes to call R over
Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) [Re: pauld2100] #1765655
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Read the DR book. I believe that "Going Dark" is no contact while LRT is more about how you manage contact and conduct your life.



Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) [Re: aliveandkicking] #2391570
10/07/13 11:26 AM
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Great thread. Really helped


M32 H37
DD1 6 DD2 5
M6 T10
EA 31.08.13
Separated and H moved out 19.09.13
ILYBINILWY 23.09.13
OW 11.13
Re: wise---from JJ re: LRT --must read :) [Re: CallaghanClown] #2425558
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Ditto. Why isn't this topic sticky noted?


Me:28
H:30
D:3
M:6.5
T:7.5
BD: 10-27-13
H moved out: 11-01-13
Handling other paperwork before petition is to be filed.
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