So Im trying to figure out my 180's. You see my excessive Drinking (nightly) and Tobacco use (dipping) are/were most of the reason my wife dropped the D bomb. I told her Soooo many times I would quit but they were Empty Promises.
I have to say she gave me the biggest wake up call of my life (and part me has to thank her) as I stopped Drinking and Dipping. Both Excellent choices and I feel happier and healthier.
Below are my 180's
1. Not Drinking Anymore 2. Not Dipping 3. Trying to be more Patient with her/kids. I could loose my temper quickly 4. Trying to be more attentive and truly listen to my W and her feelings, etc 5. No more empty promises. If I say im going to do something, DO IT,
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
There is good support at Alcoholic Anonymous for the drinking issues. Also we have a DB coach that is an expert in dealing with addictions, in additions to helping you get your marriage on track. I hope you can take advantage of both of these options. Take good care.
Karen, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 karen@divorcebusting.com
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