Scared Wife, How do I .... ?

[Guitarist]

What do I do with a walk away wife / MLC who is afraid?

She was abusive to me and then moved out. She was trying to instigate fights and I have shown anger to her in the past.

Now she is afraid of me. I can call her, but she won't answer.


I want to have healthy relations, respect, trust, and cooperation.
How can I achieve that?

I know *I* can do that, but she decided to end it long before she moved out. She went mad and I just didn't know what to do, so I did nothing.

I must show her mental stability while being NC. After all the abuse, neglect, and leaving, I'm struggling.

[KarenR]

I am sorry for the tough times you are having. I hope you will talk to a Divorce Busting coach, so that you will have the expertise and support you need to stay strong and do what needs to be done to have try to get your relationship back on track. You don't have to struggle alone, this is what Michele's coaches are superb at. Take good care and I hope to hear from you.

[Guitarist]

I want to have healthy relations, respect, trust, and cooperation.
How can I achieve that?

Your answer ?

Great book, great videos ... but no thanks on the phone conversations.

[MrBond]

I think you've been pretty rude to those who are trying to help you. Do you want to save your M or not?