CALL 303-444-7004 to get started right away!

 

 


A Divorce Busting® Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.


A Divorce Busting Telephone Coach
can help you save your marriage singlehandedly!
CALL 303-444-7004
or see Coaching Packages online at the Divorce Busting Store

A Message from Michele
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 2 1 2
Re: How much contact when there are kids? [Re: LucasE] #1436384
05/05/08 11:35 PM
05/05/08 11:35 PM
Joined: Apr 2008
Posts: 4,045
Virginia
S
StrgMarvelousWmn Offline
Member
StrgMarvelousWmn  Offline
Member
S
Joined: Apr 2008
Posts: 4,045
Virginia
The contact with kids is a problem for me, too. I want my husband tobe able to spend time with the kids--he has always been a hands-on dad. However, he is here every night, in time for dinner , and stays until the kids go to bed. He also wants to sleep over in the extra bed on teh weekends. I am a SAHM with four kids, he pays all the bills, how can I tell him that he cannot spend time with the kids in the housr he is paying for even when he does not live in it?


M40/H36
T16/M14
4K
B2/08
S4/08
current

Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through
every circumstance.
I Corinthians 13:7



Re: How much contact when there are kids? [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn] #1438122
05/07/08 03:44 AM
05/07/08 03:44 AM
Joined: Oct 2007
Posts: 473
Ohio
M
micoms Offline
Member
micoms  Offline
Member
M
Joined: Oct 2007
Posts: 473
Ohio
Sorry lucas, I've been away. My W lives with our D24, I drove D home from work, stayed for a while D's BF asked if I was staying for dinner. I said no I was meeting a friend for a couple of drinks. He said loudly Big Mike has a date. I didn't confirm or deny. Went to the bowling alley where I used to bowl, saw some friends, had a couple of beers. Came home and parked my car around the corner from the house. W drove by the house that morning at 4:30 on her way to work.

Mike


M 51
W 49
S26 S25
D24 D19
Married 27 yrs
T over 30
S 7/12
D-bomb 9/26
Re: How much contact when there are kids? [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn] #2336585
04/07/13 04:05 AM
04/07/13 04:05 AM
Joined: Apr 2013
Posts: 14
Maine
E
ezekiel37 Offline
New Member
ezekiel37  Offline
New Member
E
Joined: Apr 2013
Posts: 14
Maine
Your situation sounds so similar to mine! My H is here, at the house he pays for, and only leaves when kids are asleep. How do I detach? Go dark, etc.? Is it a good thing that he can't detach yet either? Or is he just a cake-eater? What did u do?


Ezekiel37
Me 33
H 34
M 13 years
S9 S11
Bomb 1/7/13
Moved out 3/7/13
Page 2 of 2 1 2

Save Your Marriage! Schedule Online

Schedule a phone consultation with a Divorce Busting® Coach! Call: 800-664-2435 or 303-444-7004