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job #2717269 11/22/16 06:57 AM
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Upside

Awesome news

So happy for you

Peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow
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Thank you, Upside, for coming back to post such a positive update. I think many of us need to see the positive outcomes of DBing even after D. Even the positives that don't come from reuniting can make a difference, but especially given the original goal for finding this place, those who R. That we don't have to see the D as a reason to hate our X and mark the end of our journey.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

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Awesome news!

Glad you came back to share it and YES I remember your whole story.


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wow, what a story, well done on standing up for what you believe in and in having the strength to do what you have done.

What would be very interesting is to hear your husbands perspective on all this. I hope in time you may be able to share this with us.

Best wishes on the future smile


M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted
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Upside, I remember you! I'm not sure if I ever posted to you, but I've read your story. I'm so happy for you! What a journey!

I hope too that you can share with us your most recent experiences in this.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state
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Best wishes to you and your husband! Thank you for coming back and offering us hope! xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
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Upside, I'm so pleased to read this and congratulations to you both!

It is always good to hear about stories like yours and I do wish you all the very best for the future.

You may not feel like posting about what you have learned from your H since you reconciled, but if you do.....I'm sure we'd appreciate the insight.

Very best wishes to you both xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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Hello Upside

Many congratulations to you and your h, I am really happy for you both.

Thank you so much for posting an update, it meant that your previous posts were resurrected for us to read and for me you have given me a well needed boost at a time I really need it.

My h has just done a touch and go, he was away for 2 yrs, but in contact for the last yr, I thought he was done with his MLC, he said and did the right things and I was sucked in to his world way too easily. Reading your updates, I know I have to pick myself up and keep going on with my own life, leaving him to his, I can see that he is far away from coming through this, if he does at all.

Its lovely to hear of a reconciliation, so thanks for coming back to tell us all how you are doing.

xoxo

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Upside,

Appreciate that you're coming back and sharing your story selflessly !!!

Best wishes to you and your family.

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Congratulations Upside!

And thank you for posting an update.

Good luck and God Bless.

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