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from JessicaM

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My WAH filed for divorce on 6/13 and moved out 6/14. We have a 2 year old daughter. We are in contact most days because of her. He thinks this is the best thing for us and that we are too different. No affairs.

I need help setting goals and brainstorming solutions.

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I suggest a vet with experience with

* WAS as newlywed or with young kids

* Someone with experience with a WAH

* Someone great at setting goals

* Someone great at offering MULTIPLE solutions


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I am very excited for this.


Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12
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Jess,

I might suggest trying to find Gabbysmom's threads. She is smart, compassionate and has a small child.

I don't know if she is around much lately but she posts occassionally.



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Thank you. I will do that.


Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12
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Did you manage to find Gabby's thread and drop her a note Jess?



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I have started looking through her thread but I didn't write to her.


Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12
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Why not? : )



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Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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How are you doing today Jessica?



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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I am doing okay. Really tired. Trying to get used to working again and was out late the past couple days because of the holiday. I'm trying to get things figured out for school and other things that go along with that.


Me:29; W:37
T: 6
M: 4
D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17
H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12
H moved back in: 6/28/12
Confirmed EA: 8/12
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