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fajitas together? wth? i keep waiting for him to get it...

are you sure that he knows what the word divorce means? smile


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He's quite entertaining for us, tho.


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Maybe fajita is code for something else that our WASs only know about. Like ' OMG! What the F #%^ have I done?!?!'


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LOL Busting out!

My W told me to "give her love" to my family next week. Do all these WAS' not have a clue? Does she not realize that they would have some choice words in response??

WTH???


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Yeah, like stick her love where the sun don't shine! I truly think they believe they are the "good guys" and everyone knows that!


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Originally Posted By: Brit45
I'm telling you old school duct tape down the middle of the kitchen your stuff on one side and his on the other. LOL



Haha! The OCD part of me first thought "OMG that is going to leave a sticky mess that I'm going to have to clean up!!"

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Originally Posted By: needgrace
fajitas together? wth? i keep waiting for him to get it...
ME TOO!! smile

Originally Posted By: needgrace
are you sure that he knows what the word divorce means? smile
I am quite sure he does not!!

Originally Posted By: labug
He's quite entertaining for us, tho.

Glad to provide the pre-meal entertainment wink

Originally Posted By: bustingout
Maybe fajita is code for something else that our WASs only know about. Like ' OMG! What the F #%^ have I done?!?!'
Thank you, this made me LOL at the gym!

Originally Posted By: scaredsilly
Yeah, like stick her love where the sun don't shine! I truly think they believe they are the "good guys" and everyone knows that!
Haha! Either they believe they are the good guys/gals or they are desperately terrified of being seen as the bad guys/gals (my H is).

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have u refreshed in da last 2min? lol!

was r so confusing! i'm tired of trying to figure them out!!


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So the concert was great. I was going to take an alt form of transportation there but getting there is a giant pain so H drove and picked up our friends on the way there. It was mostly not awkward.

My ticket initially had me sitting next to H but I moved when the show went on because I couldn't see over the people in front of me, so I ended up first with one friend in between us and then two.

On the way out he kept asking me what I thought, how it compared to a previous show, etc. As soon as we got in the door at home I went right up the stairs and said "Thanks for driving, goodnight."

Up this morning and he's thrown in a load of laundry that has a bunch of my stuff in it. If I were to ask him he would just say he was using it to "fill up the load" and pull out the efficiency argument. Is this worth speaking up and saying something or should I enjoy the free laundry service? grin

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We did have the laundry debate. H began keeping his clothes not in the communal dirty clothes area. He would do his laundry before I had a chance/when I was not at home. When I volunteered he flat out told me it's not right, you shouldn't have to do my laundry. I think I pushed once, and he just kept saying if you're sure. I'm not sure why I wanted to do his laundry (during my WAW days)

It validates his happy caring best friend theory. Maybe it satisfies a bit of his guilt. Maybe you should keep all your stuff in your room.

When's your DB coach session? His head is in the sand...you're gonna have to spell it out. He wants to have fajitas!

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