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Thanks labug. Seems so obvious but sometimes you really need someone to point it out for you.

Honesty.

Finding the right IC.

From the depth of feeling in my heart while typing these problems, I really need to talk to somebody. And not be afraid if the next IC isn't right either. Just like finding a doctor or other professional. I'll find the right one. smile


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway
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RR, thanks. H & I started in a 2BR condo which was great when everyone is getting along! But 20 acres isn't big enough when you aren't getting along! I really feel for you in tight quarters. My boys never, ever bother me about any emotional things. They want to stay out of it. I actually have a LOT of emotional privacy, considering all.

I already have a (counselor) lady's name that is paid for by H's work plan. I spoke to her once on the phone but the timing wasn't right.

It's right now. I can feel it in my bones. I'll call her this morning.


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
......
"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway
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