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#2212937 - 01/15/12 04:51 PM SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES
sgctxok Offline
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SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES FOR OVERCOMING RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES QUICKLY:

1) Change Anything: The 'where', the 'when' the 'who'
2) Do a 180
3) Act As If
4) Actions Speak Louder Than Words
5) Power Packaging
6) The Medium is The Message
7) Do Nothing



This is the list, we'll delineate them separately. What have you tried? What's working well?

These are ALL skills you should have in your back pocket, but it takes time. If you're a newbie, be patient. If you've been around awhile, and haven't been successful---what should you try NEXT?

If you've been successful, and you're Piecing or Keeping the Changes Going--how is your SKILLSET? What skills should you and your partner add to keep improving?
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Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

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#2248906 - 05/27/12 01:23 AM Re: SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES [Re: sgctxok]
zig Offline
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Loc: KS
his sgctxok

could you elaborate on # 5. Power packaging please.

thanks
zig
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me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"


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#2251262 - 06/04/12 09:42 PM Re: SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES [Re: zig]
sgctxok Offline
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Hi Zig....

I will do so within the week. My time always gets limited, but I will get back to you soon. Do you have a specific question?

sg wink
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Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

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#2251264 - 06/04/12 09:43 PM Re: SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES [Re: sgctxok]
sgctxok Offline
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I do see I didn't finish here.... I will keep going... but if you have specific questions, let me know
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Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

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#2251300 - 06/04/12 11:37 PM Re: SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES [Re: sgctxok]
zig Offline
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so pleased to see that you're back sgctxok

questions - i have a million questions , just like everyone else here.

i can't even begin to see what's working or not working. i try to set small goals - as small as i hope h and i can discuss next week's schedule for s without him freaking out or withdrawing.

and that's a set back, as before, we seemed to talk quite easily about the everyday stuff.

i appreciate anything you can offer - i had never heard the term power packaging and wanted to know what it meant.

thanks so much

zig
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me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"


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#2254363 - 06/14/12 10:42 PM Re: SEVEN CREATIVE APPROACHES [Re: zig]
strongerthanever Offline
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Registered: 05/26/12
Posts: 207
I'm wondering if power packaging is a combination of some of the suggestions? I'm curious myself about "the medium is the message".
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Me-31 H-24
D3,D2
M 4 yrs
WAW(me) 12/2011
role reversal 03/2012
(H)PA 3-6/2012
(H)D filed 6/2012
D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012
I've moved on 9/2012


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