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#2250553 - 06/01/12 09:18 PM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: NYCPeter]
vera be fierce Offline
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P - glad to hear you have found a place where you can be content. Your girls have a great dad.

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#2250571 - 06/01/12 10:37 PM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: vera be fierce]
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Peter u sound pretty good. I'm behind ya in the process. Keep on being the great dad that u are.

Ps: by any chance did u get 2 ticket to the Brazil Argentina game next weekend and not planning on using them?
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W 50
D 17
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 11/12
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

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#2250597 - 06/02/12 01:38 AM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: ]
Rick1963 Offline
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GM maybe he should go to bar for beer it is safer than a soccer game, really. Lol
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D 17
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Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

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#2250603 - 06/02/12 02:02 AM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: ]
Rick1963 Offline
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GM I hear ya. He should wear a Brazillian t shirt and sit on the Argentinian side. LOl
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M 51
W 50
D 17
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 11/12
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden






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#2250807 - 06/03/12 06:32 AM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: Rick1963]
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Registered: 06/27/11
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The Euros start next week.
I'll be cheering on England - but have no expectations, Spain are far stronger than anyone else.
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M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12

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#2253630 - 06/13/12 03:20 AM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: NYCPeter]
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Well here I am - sitting in the apt I have rented.
I moved in over the weekend with the help of a couple of friends. It's a nice place and big enough to accomodate the girls, but also small enough for a single person (if any of that makes sense).

D7 stayed over on Sat night - it's our usual movie night.. She even let me pick the movie (she usually gets her way). Black Beauty - I knew she would enjoy it as she loves horses.

W is moving into her cottage in a couple of weeks and our house is closing on the 24th of this month, best place I ever lived...

No D paperwork, still need to sign a couple of things - figure her L must be busy.

W is pretty distant - that's to be expected, only receive texts and they are all business and to the point.

Only one real moment of "pain" since I left the house - the walls are pretty bare (we split furnishing but most of the decorative stuff was my W's) - I thought I'd get some collage frames and put photos of the girls up. Going thru the photos - we had so many good times, but they are gone now.

All in all I'm good - looking forward to the weekend. Girls are staying over Fri - Sun night. Horseback riding and minor league baseball is on the cards.

Peace everyone...
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M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12

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#2253634 - 06/13/12 03:43 AM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: NYCPeter]
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Registered: 09/29/11
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Peter, you sound great. You sound like a different man than a few months ago, much more confident.

Your W is a fool. You are blessed with 2 beautiful girls, enjoy your time with them.

ps - I hate family photos too sometimes
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#2253695 - 06/13/12 02:42 PM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: BklynMom]
Rick1963 Offline
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Registered: 08/11/11
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BklynMom is right you are so different. Now is time to visit Pier 1 and Bed and Bath. Love those stores buy stuff and make that place home.
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W 50
D 17
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 11/12
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden






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#2253705 - 06/13/12 02:56 PM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: NYCPeter]
Mach1 Offline
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Originally Posted By: NYCPeter
I thought I'd get some collage frames and put photos of the girls up. Going thru the photos - we had so many good times, but they are gone now.


Why not leave half of them blank, and leave them for "Yet to be determined" ????


It won't mean that the past didn't happen, it's just that sometimes you have to leave some of the past behind, to clear a way for the future..

You are going to have a lifetime to fill those frames...

Maybe it is something the girls will want to help you with ???

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#2253720 - 06/13/12 03:32 PM Re: I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences" [Re: NYCPeter]
Drew Offline
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Originally Posted By: NYCPeter
Going thru the photos - we had so many good times, but they are gone now.

They're not gone. Nobody can take those memories away from you unless YOU let them.

And like my buddy Mach said - you've got plenty of time to make many more.

Chin up!!
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