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#2196699 - 11/04/11 01:46 AM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: dbmod]
TMC25 Offline
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Registered: 10/16/11
Posts: 60
dbmod- why r my posts not showing up?

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#2198466 - 11/12/11 10:20 PM Re: Board Policies [Re: Virginia]
PERSEVERANCE Offline
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Registered: 11/12/11
Posts: 172
Loc: East Coast
Hi, how long does it normally take for your post to show?- I just started... I didn't see my post & re-posted my story. I don't want to annoy anyone or have a duplicate. Thanks
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US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

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#2198468 - 11/12/11 10:38 PM Re: Board Policies [Re: PERSEVERANCE]
Ajay Offline
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Registered: 10/24/11
Posts: 111
Loc: Pendown UK
Well to start with it seems to take forever. I waited three days for some of mine to show. I filled in the waiting time by adding to the thread as I thought of new stuff.
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#2198524 - 11/13/11 02:13 PM Re: Board Policies [Re: PERSEVERANCE]
Cadet Offline
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Registered: 11/24/09
Posts: 5318
Originally Posted By: Broken422
Hi, how long does it normally take for your post to show?- I just started... I didn't see my post & re-posted my story. I don't want to annoy anyone or have a duplicate. Thanks

Have some patience, something you need to learn in DB'ing

After so many posts you will be off moderation.
Post smaller amounts until then.
Have faith that they will show up.

While you are waiting read other peoples stories, and some of the resources here, you are not the first one or the last to go through this.

It will get better but everything takes TIME.
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#2210052 - 01/03/12 08:17 PM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: 2stepboogie]
Oneeleven Offline
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Registered: 12/31/11
Posts: 301
Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
This question is to the moderators.......

Sometimes I post needing some advice and comfort but my post or respond to someone does not show up for several days. I started a thread about 5 days ago and still don't see it. I don't get it.


I am in the same situation. I read that newbies' posts get moderated and it takes more time for them to be seen.
At what stage do you get to see your posts more quickly?
Thank you
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#2215934 - 01/26/12 03:14 AM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: Oneeleven]
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Registered: 08/05/08
Posts: 2155
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#2223867 - 02/21/12 03:11 PM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: dbmod]
barely floating Offline
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Registered: 12/14/11
Posts: 757
What does the thumbs down sign next to my post mean? Am I in trouble?
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Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
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#2239137 - 04/19/12 01:55 PM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: barely floating]
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Registered: 11/04/11
Posts: 951
lol @ BF^^^^
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S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

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#2242963 - 05/04/12 09:07 PM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: dbmod]
tonibertha Offline
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Registered: 02/22/12
Posts: 166
[testquote]
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Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11

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#2242964 - 05/04/12 09:08 PM (NA) Re: Board Policies [Re: tonibertha]
tonibertha Offline
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Registered: 02/22/12
Posts: 166
how do you quote. doesn't work for me
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Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11

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