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#2242668 - 05/03/12 08:42 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: Broken74]
MrBond Offline
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Registered: 06/18/08
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You can have hope while detached.

It's like when you have a friend who is an alcoholic. You hope that one day they'll be okay, but you aren't emotionally attached too much.

It's when you hope so much that it starts affecting you that it's not detachment.
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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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#2242842 - 05/04/12 01:14 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: MrBond]
ThisDayForward Offline
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Registered: 01/16/12
Posts: 2124
Thx I understand. It just seems like for me I feel like there is hope. We went to mediator. She said 200% she wants a divorce. But now I feel like until she makes the next appointment or I get served papers there is hope. I know it sounds crazy. I try not to obsess over it but I always do feel like I am in limbo.

I made it back into my office today. Although noone is in so its still quiet

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#2242845 - 05/04/12 01:19 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: ThisDayForward]
AprilT Offline
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Registered: 03/27/12
Posts: 127
Loc: Georgia
Net thinking about you and hoping you have a good weekend! Go out and have some fun.

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#2242866 - 05/04/12 02:35 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: AprilT]
ThisDayForward Offline
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Registered: 01/16/12
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my W emailed me no mediator. Getting a L and going after kids and money

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#2242878 - 05/04/12 03:34 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: ThisDayForward]
AprilT Offline
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Registered: 03/27/12
Posts: 127
Loc: Georgia
Net....there was always that chance..Just breathe and take it a moment at a time. You will be okay. Do you have a L?

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#2242890 - 05/04/12 04:10 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: AprilT]
ThisDayForward Offline
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sorry my W emailed me saying she refuses to use a mediator she obtained a lawyer and is coming after my financials etc

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#2242902 - 05/04/12 04:57 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: ThisDayForward]
vera be fierce Offline
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Registered: 04/24/12
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Sorry to hear this, netmaster. Now is the time to get yourself a L if you haven't already so that you can best protect yourself and your kids. Perhaps the mediator gave her an indication that she wasn't going to get as much as she wants through that process?

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#2242907 - 05/04/12 05:29 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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Registered: 01/12/12
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get a lawyer and don't communicate with her anymore about anything but the kids' welfare.
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M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing


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#2242935 - 05/04/12 07:26 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: scaredsilly]
MrBond Offline
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Registered: 06/18/08
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What did the mediator tell you both?
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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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#2242998 - 05/05/12 12:08 AM Re: Recently Seperated Part 10 [Re: MrBond]
ThisDayForward Offline
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Registered: 01/16/12
Posts: 2124
mediator thought we would not be able to mediate with 1 lawyer that we both need lawyers. plus she making threats now too

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