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Bug I love your post. I feel like I am in a dark place today but I know that there will be a sunshiny day on the other side. Its just so hard sometimes.

Thanks for writing down how you made it through. It helps a lot


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Originally Posted By: labug
If your only reason for being here is to "Save My Marriage" you will be stuck in the same place a year, 2 years, forever. Lay down the save my marriage banner and pick up the one that says "Save Me"


Loved this LaBug. So hard to see in the beginning. He!! I even lose sight of it after 14 months...

..but if you can hold on to it.... You WILL come out better than before.

Keep on keeping on!


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Yes, Val, I have to keep reminding myself. Sometimes I get a little lost but thanks to my IC and this board, I reel myself back in.


Me 57/H 58
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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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BK, sorry you're having a dark day, but you can turn it around. I know it seems impossible but you can.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
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