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One thing my L said that got me thinking was that Tuesday will be our 1st court date. My W is in a deep fog and if I know her, she beliefs everything will go as she planned/believed. My L warned me that things may go south when she finds out I have rights. So I will have to be extra vigilant and patient. So sorry it came to this but my top concern is my D15 and my self.

And yes I'm exited about the future scared but exited. I don't what it holds but will live today as if it was my last day. So there I said it


M 53
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Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

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Going to court tomorrow. Guess this M is over. I really tried but she won't budge. So pray for me guys. I think that I'm ok otherwise.


M 53
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Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden





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Sorry (((rick1963)))


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M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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I'll be with you in spirit.


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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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good luck rick - and walk in there head held high and only one thought in your mind:

"I expect things to go well"

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me 46 H 38
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BD ow 8/11
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Cool, calm, and confident, Rick. Stay strong.

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I wish you and your family the best Rick.


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

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Good Luck today Rick. Praying for you!


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Love at all costs because you are loved well.
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Hang in there Rick...............youve gots lots of support and peeps behind U Sorry that your marriage has come to this Hug your daughter!!


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Best of luck today Rick!! You are in my prayers!!


-Autumn

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