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nope it is her. She flipped out on me. Absolutely calling me names and vulgarity. Said she was waiting until dog episode was done. Shes wanted out for a very long time. I'm tired of having her feel trapped. it blows believe me but there is no working with her. She wants it, I'm not fighting it anymore. I'll let her do the work.She was more worried about pulling the trigger and explaining to kids. This isn't me but 2 years of verbal abuse is way to much
LA you don't know 1/2 of it. So easy ok. Every 2 weeks for 3 years but most likely (10) I've gotten this verbal rotten abuse. It will be better for the kids. i truly believe that. I can't enjoy them like this
and btw I know I failed in every aspect of this separation. I didn't detach. I pursued even when I thought I wasn't. I wasn't patient. My anxiety got the absolute best of me. I've completely failed. Having no job absolutely killed me too