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#2245436 - 05/15/12 04:55 PM Re: Room for Improvement [Re: labug]
BklynMom Offline
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Registered: 09/29/11
Posts: 1784
Bug I love your post. I feel like I am in a dark place today but I know that there will be a sunshiny day on the other side. Its just so hard sometimes.

Thanks for writing down how you made it through. It helps a lot
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#2245453 - 05/15/12 05:46 PM Re: Room for Improvement [Re: labug]
Valeska19 Offline
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Registered: 05/28/11
Posts: 1241
Loc: Los Angeles, CA
Originally Posted By: labug
If your only reason for being here is to "Save My Marriage" you will be stuck in the same place a year, 2 years, forever. Lay down the save my marriage banner and pick up the one that says "Save Me"


Loved this LaBug. So hard to see in the beginning. He!! I even lose sight of it after 14 months...

..but if you can hold on to it.... You WILL come out better than before.

Keep on keeping on!
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Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.

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#2245473 - 05/15/12 07:26 PM Re: Room for Improvement [Re: Valeska19]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8687
Loc: Sonoran Desert
Yes, Val, I have to keep reminding myself. Sometimes I get a little lost but thanks to my IC and this board, I reel myself back in.
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Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2245488 - 05/15/12 08:36 PM Re: Room for Improvement [Re: labug]
labug Offline
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Registered: 11/24/11
Posts: 8687
Loc: Sonoran Desert
BK, sorry you're having a dark day, but you can turn it around. I know it seems impossible but you can.
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M35 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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