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#2240191 - 04/23/12 09:33 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: MrBond]
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Registered: 11/25/11
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Whaaaaat!?!? You're worried about her cycles, you should have yours checked.
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Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2240197 - 04/23/12 09:40 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: labug]
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nope it is her. She flipped out on me. Absolutely calling me names and vulgarity. Said she was waiting until dog episode was done. Shes wanted out for a very long time. I'm tired of having her feel trapped. it blows believe me but there is no working with her. She wants it, I'm not fighting it anymore. I'll let her do the work.She was more worried about pulling the trigger and explaining to kids. This isn't me but 2 years of verbal abuse is way to much

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#2240202 - 04/23/12 10:00 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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LA you don't know 1/2 of it. So easy ok. Every 2 weeks for 3 years but most likely (10) I've gotten this verbal rotten abuse. It will be better for the kids. i truly believe that. I can't enjoy them like this

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#2240204 - 04/23/12 10:02 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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You're right.

Good luck.
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M36 S24 S21
Bomb 3/11 Sep 3/11
Piecing 9/13 12/13 Reconciling

"We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same"~Carlos Castenada

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#2240206 - 04/23/12 10:03 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: labug]
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Thx. Sorry I meant to say she is going to mediator and I finally said ok. That I'm ok with it.

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#2240207 - 04/23/12 10:09 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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and btw I know I failed in every aspect of this separation. I didn't detach. I pursued even when I thought I wasn't. I wasn't patient. My anxiety got the absolute best of me. I've completely failed. Having no job absolutely killed me too

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#2240217 - 04/23/12 10:40 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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I'm so pissed at myself. Honestly pissed off for myself for wrecking my family. I'm a real azzhole. Maybe now I finally detach after shes gone

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#2240220 - 04/23/12 10:48 PM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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Reading through all my posts from 2thepoint, LA, Mr. Bond, KD etc.. I blew it. I should have just listened. Leave her 250% completely be.

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#2240249 - 04/24/12 12:31 AM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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Sorry LA. Today went the exact opposite of what I planned. Can't even tell you what I was planning for today and actually what happened

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#2240256 - 04/24/12 12:51 AM Re: Recently Seperated Part 9 [Re: ThisDayForward]
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Originally Posted By: netmaster
... I blew it. I should have just listened. Leave her 250% completely be.


OK, so now you say you are DONE! Now, more than ever you need to remember and live your statement above! Stop being the moth flying into the zapper! Stop jumping on the hamster wheel!

Can you do it? Will you do it?
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