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Still nothing from the lawyers. H. back alot better. So as soon as he can drive I guess we will have the four way. Just down, packing is getting there.

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Spent some time with some really great friends tonite. Made me feel a lot better. I actually laughed out loud quite a few times! Got my mind of the fresh hell that I'm sure awaits me this week with lawyers and moving. Sort of took the whole day off today. I moved 40 boxes into garage yesterday, to count them and get them out of the way for the big stuff movers will have to move. NC with h. today.

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I know its crazy how fast your situation has progressed but I have been in limbo for close to a year and I know the only thing that will make my H look at me again is a D. In some ways once you get the D it will give your H the permission he needs to look at you again. Anything you do right now he will interrupt at controlling.

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Sorry about your upcoming week (((HIW)))


Me- 34 W-33
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Bomb- 6-2011
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"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley
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Sorry about your upcoming week (((HIW)))


Me- 34 W-33
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Thanks Brkln, I hope you are right.

Sayitanintso, looks like I might get a reprieve till next week for lawyers, and a couple of weeks for move. Thanks for checking in!

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P we got ur back so don't stress too much ok. It will all work out. In AA they say that nothing happens because of coincidence. There is always higher being planning for us.


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Rick, thanks alot! That helps.

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Jeez, movers are expensive!

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Well tommorrow is the big lawyer day. Wish me luck!

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